my friends and i met last night and it was so fun.
shes married now with my friend in highschool, so i say they are highschool sweethearts. they got a beautiful kid named noemi and im yes, one of the "fairy godmother" lol... we are so close that we knew each secrets and fears, and all the embarrassing moments shared are treasured.
she say to both of us (me and friend1):
1.)so you are graduating next year? thats great! you will be having your degree, the two of you. im so happy for both of you
2.)Already did it? (and we laugh about it and yes, we said yes)
3.)(she says) you are still both not ready, better finish that degree, only months to go.. better not to get pregnant.
and then ... even til now it kept me thinking...
on her condition, being already a mother, having a kid, she looks happy..
but when do we say, that we are really ready to get pregnant? or have children? or be married?
Does some mothers who get to have a baby on an early age thinks the same as hers?? are there regrets?
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humm...thats a good question...i dont regret havin my son, he's the greatset thing that ever happend in my life, but some times i do get sad, knowin that, ill never be able to do alot of things that i should have. Like for me , ill never have the real graduation with all my childhood friends, ill never have a prom. I wont be able to travel to do my modeling just yet. So yea, sometimes im sad but they never form into regrets because as soon as i see his smile all sadness for me goes away. But as far as i would say, if you have the choice to wait, wait until youve done the things that matter most to you in your youth, and until you know your stable enough on your won to take care of another person.
~Lost_Love