One of the doctors' who were instructing us on our early years in college said that "we must learn how to connect our lessons learned in other subject with the lessons that we have now." its just that way it works she added.
    Thinking about it, i knew that she is telling us and showing us what was beyond.

As this is a blog site where love is mostly the subject. Im connecting those words that she said with what ive learned about people in particular. you might object but this is what i think. and this is my blog so i dont care.
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In a relationship ive learned that you can never completely please your partner let alone the other people surrounding you. and because of this arguments arises and fights and misunderstandings. Your partner or you might want to work it out first and second and third, but on the latter one of you will surely want out.

A love story might not be a happy ending, to the ones who had just experience being inlove and failed might find that very hard, and the realization of fairy tales only exist on walt disneys books or movies. To those who have failed might get afraid to try again, some may hate their EX bf/gf, some may even try to get them back, some might try again and some on my opinion, there are some who were courageous enough to try again. And im happy for them.

That boys/men who were just courting will say even the impossible just to get you, will show you, give you attention that girls might fall for and when they started dating there goes the true color. Some men, also knows how to love and they are the one who just might be the least you have expected they were noisy and rude or silent. That you just have also to invest time to get to know a real jerk better and decide that he is not a jerk after all.

In failed relationships, a bottle of beer comes in handy, party seems to be unscheduled jumping from one party to the other. One might vomit their lungs out and do crazy things, one might find a rebound but in the end of the day most likely these people might find themselves crying and thinking when did the tears fell.

Conclusion is expected, like i will never love again, or i will never hurt  again, but find themselves falling in love again after a month, or a year. . .

Hurting because of love is ok, why do we hate it? why do some people put the blame on other people for their mistakes in their relationship? and why are some people have doubts about love just because other people are not successful in their love life? Connecting our experiences will surely help. hurting this time might help us later

its raining so hard and i just got back from errands.
got a cup of hot chocolate in  hand. its home.

so how about you?

when its so cold outside..
what are you doing?
what are you thinking?

when i was a kid, i usually grew soo excited about christmas that i always ask my parents how many more days do i have to wait for that day. it was fun.
remembering those days, wow, i cant forget my ma being busy in the kitchen cooking dishes, my sister makes he very own fruit salad that i have to sneak just to taste a little into the fridge. my brother, oh he was a staller, he goes out and just be unavailable for any errands so i have to find him and fetch. i miss those days, my pa is outside talking with my uncles and buying some errands for my ma, he complains that we dont need much food in christmas, i was horrified. no he cant do that, christmas for me is like my birthday back then. but still mother knows her way into my pa.. lol.
and now, christmas doesnt need to be grand. my mother on the other country now working, my sister with her and my brother already has his own family. that left me with my father in our house, but he used to go to my ma when im busy at school. this christmas im spending it with my father. and its fun. and i miss him soo much also from being away from him because of school. but it would be more merrier if we are all here, i wouldnt mind pa complaining about the many food we have to prepare, i wouldnt mind my brother leaving the house to avoid any errands, i wouldnt mind my sister lecturing me to behave and try to not eat her salad. just as long as during christmas we are with each other.
having friends and doing things grown ups do is fun.you get to buy and spend night out alot just that sometimes, i wish i could still see christmas as what ive pictured it before. just being with those persons whose been with you the first you celebrated your christmas.