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Wednesday, 04 November 2009

  • THERE'S NO PERFECT MAN

    We decided living, and after what had happened living seems to be the only option and that was hard. Well, as of this moment i wont be talking about living, for there's no much to tell about life after we lost our child. Yeah, we decided living and first step is to see the bright side. What i've learned from that experience has changed my views towards people and towards life and towards my faith.

    Ive questioned or asked God but still I never hated him.
    And it was the time that ive thought things.

    Since childhood, I learned to appreciate love stories, Ive learned and dreamt of my dream wedding, the man of my dreams, my dream family but first ive to find my perfect man. I have so many criterias or standards, but again, some in my list wasn't there. In my PERFECT MAN list was, 1. tall 2. sports minded 3. good sense of humor 4. has a great job 5. good looking 6. neat 7. can carry conversations 8. can get along with my friends 9. whos not demanding 10.. and a lot more. Imagine.. i got a lot more! Girls has this imprinted on their minds, or some girls does and im one of them

    And again, i realized that none too much of that list is needed in order for you to find your perfect man.It didn't reach 6 or 7 to find him. I found him the day i was laying in the ultrasound room holding my hand so tight when the doctor tells us that we lost our child. I found him, controlling his tears when im powerless of mine. I found him standing amidst our weakest moment, I found him comforting me when I knew he needs comforting too. With all that imperfections, I found him. Staring at me and holding on when i saw no reason to continue what we had. He might boss around, demands or werent that extra sweet but he made me fall inlove with him again.

    So what we need is not a list, we need is we should be ready to take risks and chances to what we think is hopeless, a reason is always behind in every dream.We must not try to change a man for what he is not, so that they can fit in our every standard, i could say that let him be the man who he wanted to be and grow with him.


Thursday, 01 January 2009

  • people are people

        One of the doctors' who were instructing us on our early years in college said that "we must learn how to connect our lessons learned in other subject with the lessons that we have now." its just that way it works she added.
        Thinking about it, i knew that she is telling us and showing us what was beyond.

    As this is a blog site where love is mostly the subject. Im connecting those words that she said with what ive learned about people in particular. you might object but this is what i think. and this is my blog so i dont care.
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    In a relationship ive learned that you can never completely please your partner let alone the other people surrounding you. and because of this arguments arises and fights and misunderstandings. Your partner or you might want to work it out first and second and third, but on the latter one of you will surely want out.

    A love story might not be a happy ending, to the ones who had just experience being inlove and failed might find that very hard, and the realization of fairy tales only exist on walt disneys books or movies. To those who have failed might get afraid to try again, some may hate their EX bf/gf, some may even try to get them back, some might try again and some on my opinion, there are some who were courageous enough to try again. And im happy for them.

    That boys/men who were just courting will say even the impossible just to get you, will show you, give you attention that girls might fall for and when they started dating there goes the true color. Some men, also knows how to love and they are the one who just might be the least you have expected they were noisy and rude or silent. That you just have also to invest time to get to know a real jerk better and decide that he is not a jerk after all.

    In failed relationships, a bottle of beer comes in handy, party seems to be unscheduled jumping from one party to the other. One might vomit their lungs out and do crazy things, one might find a rebound but in the end of the day most likely these people might find themselves crying and thinking when did the tears fell.

    Conclusion is expected, like i will never love again, or i will never hurt  again, but find themselves falling in love again after a month, or a year. . .

    Hurting because of love is ok, why do we hate it? why do some people put the blame on other people for their mistakes in their relationship? and why are some people have doubts about love just because other people are not successful in their love life? Connecting our experiences will surely help. hurting this time might help us later



Wednesday, 31 December 2008

  • where's my kiss

    Facing the holidays, i went home at our house from my school which is too faraway that you have to ride a 1 hour plane or an 8 hour trip by ship. And so i have to leave my bf there coz his parents will be visiting them there instead.

    And new year, i read so many beliefs and exciting blogs from different people how they would love to spend their holidays with some one, and then there was this. New years Kiss.

    i wanted to have that kiss. for welcoming the year with him.I envy those people who are with their SO in that time wishing that they will both have happy new year, in their relationship.

    i guess i will just have to settle with the phone calling or waiting...

Tuesday, 30 December 2008

Sunday, 28 December 2008

  • kissing in real life

    i love watching movies on their kissing scenes, it is so sweet and so romantic most especially before they kiss and the guy just stares at his girls eyes as if he is telling her something. and by just that look they understand. i get giddy watching those flicks. and yes, i do love kissing too.

    who dont anyway?

    well i got a question,is kissing scenes on the movies and real life different?  does it also happen in real situations, wherein both of you just want knocking the other  senseless with a  kiss or does it only happens in the movies?  that is before sex... or you just want to kiss a little and do the deed?

    which is which?
    and why?


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